I saw some comments on this video...people thought it was defeatist, I don't I think it is saying what I write about here on my blog. Be yourself, your best self, and do not worry about the Joneses.
"Keeping up with the Joneses" is an idiom in many parts of the English-speaking world referring to the comparison to one's neighbor as a benchmark for social caste
or the accumulation of material goods. To fail to "keep up with the
Joneses" is perceived as demonstrating socio-economic or cultural